Tuesday, 31 May 2016

Insaan Ban Jao Bahot Scope Hai

I came around an image on WhatsApp send to me by a friend. On the picture it was written that, "Be a human, it has a lot of scope". This statement is a sarcasm on those neighbours, acquaintances, relatives and friends who keep advising us that do this or do that as the career has a lot of scope. Contrary to our needs, our aims and our desires they start comparing us to others and pour us with a plethora of Do's and Don'ts''.

I ask them who are they to have control on my life? I will live it on my terms. What I owe to myself is to do my work and what I owe to them all is not to interfere in their work.

Role of parents is very crucial. Their advice is sometimes boon and sometimes bane. My philosophy for life is I learn to follow my heart. By the pressure of other people I can't be something else which I am not. I will make my own way. If it is through the stars I will try for that too.

Once you be a human i.e. be what you really are and not a person with a mask. You will be more happy, more content and you will not be an exhibitionist. All this will bring peace to you.

When you try to be a human you also bring in you a sense of sympathy, faith, patience, love, gratitude and so much more. With all this you are doing a lot for yourself rather than for others.

 
Next time you find an Uncle or Aunt advising you. Tell them, "There is a lot of scope in becoming a Human, you must also try for that". But not all Uncle's and Aunt's try to share their pseudo repository of knowledge. Some do care for you. Tell them I respect for your advise but I want to do this. Don't ignore them too. 

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