Today while discussing one of the friend cited his story of his trip to G.B.Road(Red Light Area). In between one of the friend said, "One must Never pay for sex". The discussion became intense and reached to few conclusions.
1. In India unlike developed countries prostitution generally starts in the form of forced sex. You cannot make excuse that by offering money in exchange of sex you are contributing to their livelihood. If you want to contribute rehabilitate them. Don't encourage prostitution.
2. How can one justify casual sex? Think...
3. I believe "Lust" is a negative emotion. How can one negative emotion dominate us so much that we divorce our self from our own positives.
4. Importantly, it is likely observed that a person who is ready to pay for sex can be a potential rapist. I don't say all of them..but yes, you must agree for some of them and any percentage of rapist is dangerous.
5. People say legalizing prostitution will help to prevent rape. It is a very strong argument. But you must agree to this also that forced sex which is an explicit nature of prostitution is taking the fundamental right of a human being i.e. Right to have dignified life.
6. What's wrong in casual sex? If two people agree..then you must have sex. But Navneet cited a very important point ( I was like...agreed). There are many shades of a person's personality. Like for a girl it is her caring nature, simplicity, compassion, anger, freedom, etc.. how can just one element of her shade i.e. physical appearance dominate other shades. If it does our thinking is very narrow. We must try to overcome such a feeling.
1. In India unlike developed countries prostitution generally starts in the form of forced sex. You cannot make excuse that by offering money in exchange of sex you are contributing to their livelihood. If you want to contribute rehabilitate them. Don't encourage prostitution.
2. How can one justify casual sex? Think...
3. I believe "Lust" is a negative emotion. How can one negative emotion dominate us so much that we divorce our self from our own positives.
4. Importantly, it is likely observed that a person who is ready to pay for sex can be a potential rapist. I don't say all of them..but yes, you must agree for some of them and any percentage of rapist is dangerous.
5. People say legalizing prostitution will help to prevent rape. It is a very strong argument. But you must agree to this also that forced sex which is an explicit nature of prostitution is taking the fundamental right of a human being i.e. Right to have dignified life.
6. What's wrong in casual sex? If two people agree..then you must have sex. But Navneet cited a very important point ( I was like...agreed). There are many shades of a person's personality. Like for a girl it is her caring nature, simplicity, compassion, anger, freedom, etc.. how can just one element of her shade i.e. physical appearance dominate other shades. If it does our thinking is very narrow. We must try to overcome such a feeling.
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